Archive for January, 2009

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To Journal or not to Journal

January 29, 2009

I recently took up journaling, again.  Journaling is a pretty popular spiritual discipline among Christian Leaders (and among many Christians).  I’ve flirted with journaling a number of times and it’s something I would do every day for 3 or 4 weeks, then a couple times a week for 3 or 4 weeks, then a couple times a month for a 2 or 3 months; and then I would stop altogether.

What motivated me to start anew?  Mike Singletary.  That’s right, Mike Singletary the Hall of Fame linebacker of the Chicago Bears and the current head coach of the San Francisco 49ers.  I’ve read several articles, as of late, about Mike Singletary’s faith and his personal discipline—and how he always keeps a journal with him to record everything that he feels he needs to record.  He’s done it for years and believes that the discipline has helped him become a stronger leader and a better man.  And it’s not just spiritual musings he records, but experiences, advice, thoughts, ideas and dreams; even conversations he has with his children.

So I’m journaling again; not so much as a spiritual discipline but as a personal discipline.

In fact, I’m a bit turned off to journaling as a spiritual discipline because it’s been made a test of faith and religion when the Bible offers nothing in regards to journaling as a spiritual discipline.  In fact, I can’t remember one passage of Scripture where spirituality is equated with journaling; nor can I remember one Biblical character who journaled (unless you consider the Wisdom Literature ancient journals).

No, “Religion that God our Father accepts and pure and faultless,” is not to journal and join an accountability group, but “to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world,” (James 1:27).  And the chief-end of man is not to develop spiritual disciplines but to “fear God and obey His commands,” (Ecclesiastes 12:13); and we will be known, not by our spiritual activities but “by our fruit,” (Matthew 20:7).  And the “blessed man” is not the one who journals but the one who “delights in the Law of the Lord and meditates upon it day and night,” (Psalm 1:2).

Are spiritual disciplines fruitful?  Absolutely.  Do I participate in spiritual disciplines?  You bet.  Are they a test of devotion and spirituality?  Absolutely not.  Are they an aide to devotion?  At their very best, yes.  But at their worst they are empty acts of religious behavior that pander to the ego and prevent one from discovering true religion.

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Henry Pool Was Here

January 27, 2009

Last night my wife and I watched the DVD “Henry Pool was Here” starring Luke Wilson as a disgruntled and dying  young man who buys a home in the neighborhood where he grew up; expecting to die there, alone.  Annoyed by his new neighbors, he offers a perpetual stiff-arm to anyone who tries to befriend and encourage him. 

Extremely angry at the world, and lacking faith of any kind, Henry (played by Wilson) becomes indignant when his neighbors see an image of Jesus Christ in the water stain on his stucco wall-covering.  His indignation is significantly exaggerated when his friends and neighbors start to believe they’ve been healed by God when they touch the “water stain.”

Forget the Catholic theology, this is a must-see family movie.  Despite several four-letter words, it is a story of faith, hope and love.  It encourages the audience to recognize the importance of believing in something more than just the material world, it does not attempt to hide the misery in the world but is none-the-less a sunny movie, and it continually touts the importance of selflessness and service to others.  Likewise, it deals with some important psycho-social issues regarding why people share their faith, and why not.

It’s not very often that a movie inspires me to post a web-log—but this one has done that very thing.  It’s a faith-filled romantic-drama that might just elicit a tear (or two).  Thumbs up for “Henry Pool Was Here.”

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Glamour Shots

January 23, 2009

This past week we had new family pictures taken to welcome our newest son to the family (that makes three).  We did some “baby” shots, some “mom and baby” shots, some “older brothers welcome the baby” shots, and some “mom, dad and baby” shots.  Per my normal routine, I won’t post family names or family pics on my blog; but if you’re my wife’s friend you can see them on her Facebook page.

Anyway, we did some shots of me ala 1990s glamour shots (see new blog photo above).  And just to preempt all the e-mail sarcasm I’m surely facing, I thought I’d just lay it out there now.  Go ahead, make fun, laugh it up—but you’ve got to admit it’s a pretty good picture.  My favorite photographer probably touched it up to remove all the wrinkles, blemishes, and imperfections.  Despite the touch-ups it’s not going to be in GQ anytime soon; but we actually needed to take them for the North American Christian Convention next Summer.  I’m leading a workshop there and they want a photo for their publications.  However, I’m pretty sure the pic isn’t going to help attendance any at my workshop.

Well, enough with this narcissistic, hubristic, vainity-ridden blog post about my glamour shot—let the sneering begin!

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Blog More… Check!?!

January 16, 2009

One of my New Year’s resolutions was to blog more.  First resolution broken by January 16th.  Nice.  But I really do have a good excuse.

My wife gave birth to our third-born son on January 7 (which happens to be my birthday as well).  He’s nine days old, and I’m 32 years and 9 days old (I can hear all of you humming happy birthday as you read).  He was 6lbs, 6ozs, 18 1/2″ long, and generally healthy (although we had a few minor complications in labor and delivery).

Now we’re sleeping about 4.5 hours per night (joy), and generally having a hard time staying current on everything (not complaining), so the Blog has been a bit on the back-burner (apologies given, hopefully accepted).

We certainly appreciate your thoughts and prayers as we welcome this new baby and make this new transition in our lives.  And we appreciate all of you who have called, blessed, prayed, cared, visited and especially those who have brought food, gifts, and gigantic stork signs (we like you guys the best).

Truly, we feel blessed to have healthy children, great friends, and an awesome God!

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New Year’s Resolutions

January 3, 2009

Ah, the new year…!  Is it just me or does it not really feel like a new year?  Don’t get me wrong, we had a nice thanksgiving celebration and a wonderful Christmas celebration but the new year still managed to sneak up on me.  On Thursday I saw something about 2009 and thought “That’s a little premature,” but then realized that it was (is)2009.  Unbelievable!

During the new year people love to make all kinds of New Year’s Resolutions, most of which are hap-hazard and short lived.  I don’t do too many resolutions but last year I made a couple.  One I kept, but the other (no caffine) lasted about 12 weeks.  However, I was addicted to caffine and now I just drink in moderation, having transitioned to decaf coffee and maybe one diet soda a day.

Meanwhile I read 30 to 40 books last year (don’t know exact count); lost 40 lbs; got off of blood-pressure meds; and had a pretty good year in hindsight.  Our church continues to grow and progress, so that’s good; and so I find myself with nothing really to complain about.  (FYI:  Not complaining might be a good new year’s resolution for some of you!)

My resolutions this year?  Let see…, I want to blog more b/c I’ve gotten a bit lazy about the blog; I want to be more devotional and less political (my blog kind of deteriorited into occassional political rants during the election season); I want to save more money this year than I have in previous years (b/c I’d like to retire in about 35-40 years); I want to lose another 40 pounds (which would put me at about 150lbs); and I want to take a real vacation (since we’ve only done that once in our 9+ years of marriage).

That’s right, we’ll celebrate 10 years of marriage in September–we’re planning a tropical trip to Mexico to celebrate (scheduled for sometime this summer).

Mostly, though, I want to continue to learn what God wants me to learn; and I want to do better at being the man He wants me to be as (1) a Christian; (2) a Husband; (3) a Father; (4) a Leader; (5) a Servant; and (6) a Citizen.

May He bless you as well in 2009 with every spiritual blessing you need to live for Christ.

PS:  Son # 3 is due tomorrow (January 4th); we’ll see what happens!

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